Episode 19: Prenups, Community Property, and the Three Things You Should Do Before Divorce Finds You
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Divorce hits differently when you've been financially asleep — and the book Strangers by Belle Burden is waking women up all over the country.
Brooke sits down with divorce attorney Jodi Lazar for a real-talk breakdown of the legal fine print that Belle's story lays bare: prenups, community property, financial literacy inside a marriage, and the three things every woman should do right now to protect herself — whether divorce is on her radar or not.
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What You'll Learn
Divorce and financial blind spots in marriage
How stay-at-home roles create hidden legal vulnerability
Reading your tax return protects you in divorce
Prenups force the financial conversation couples avoid -Why every married woman should consider divorce scenarios
⏱️ Chapters
[00:00] Introduction: Meet divorce attorney Jodi Lazar
[00:49] What is Strangers by Belle Burden? A plain-English summary
[03:51] Why this book hit a nerve with women everywhere
[06:01] Identity, agency, and what Belle gave away without knowing it
[09:53] How money avoidance inside a marriage creates financial blind spots
[12:46] What to do if you realize you're Belle Burden right now
[15:25] Why reading your tax return is the first move you can make today
[19:20] What Belle’s story gets right about surviving a "good divorce"
[24:25] The real purpose of a prenuptial agreement
[29:09] Community property
[33:40] What happens when you marry into wealth without a prenup
[37:36] Why couples therapy is actually a smart financial planning tool
[38:07] What Belle's lawyers might have argued to challenge the prenup
[43:20] The children factor: custody, conflict, and what kids actually need
[47:41] Jodi's three things every woman should do to protect herself
[51:28] Wrap-up: Knowledge is power, and it's never too late
Resources
Strangers by Belle Burden: https://www.amazon.com/Strangers-Memoir-Marriage-Belle-Burden/dp/0593733312
Lazar Law: https://www.lazarlaw.com/
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