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You don’t need to be an expert to understand how the law affects your life. Side Bar is here to help you learn the rules in a way that feels approachable, useful, and human — so you can make informed decisions with more confidence and a lot less overwhelm.

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The Financial Advisor Usually Sees it First

After more than two decades of practice in the areas of estate planning and probate, I’ve seen the same thing happen over and over again: the financial advisor often spots the estate-planning problem before the estate-planning attorney does.

It’s the financial advisors who often know the client’s financial life, family dynamics, business interests, and major life changes better than anyone else in the professional circle.  They see when the beneficiary designation is stale. They hear about the remarriage, the troubled child, the aging parent, the business transition, or the move to another state. And very often, they are the ones who realize first that the estate plan no longer matches the client’s life.

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Can I Use That? What You Actually Own on the Internet

We see this all the time. People post a professional photo and write "PC: [Photographer Name]" or "No copyright infringement intended." I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but saying you didn't mean to break the law doesn't mean you didn't break the law. It’s like telling a police officer, “No speeding intended,” while you were doing 90 in a 40.

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