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Bite-sized stories and real-world breakdowns that turn curious humans into legally literate adults.
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This is a space for clear, thoughtful conversations about the legal side of everyday life. Here, you’ll find practical explainers, relatable stories, and timely insights on topics that quietly shape your world — from adulting and money to family, work, housing, justice, and what’s unfolding in the news.
You don’t need to be an expert to understand how the law affects your life. Side Bar is here to help you learn the rules in a way that feels approachable, useful, and human — so you can make informed decisions with more confidence and a lot less overwhelm.
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How to Protect Your Content as a Creator
Delve into the complex world of copyrights and trademarks from both sides: how you can protect what you create and avoid getting into trouble when using others’ content.
Medical Aid in Dying Isn't Suicide.
In this blog, we get to the bottom of what “medical aid in dying” actually is. How is it different from euthanasia and assisted suicide, and why is that difference not just legal hairsplitting but the entire point?
Is a Citizen’s Arrest Real, or Just for the Movies?
Can you actually yell, "Stop right there, sir! I am but a humble citizen, but I am placing you under arrest, and I'm going to detain you until the police arrive.” The short answer is yes. But it’s a lot narrower (and riskier) than you think.
Can You Really Erase an Arrest From Your Record?
Think a dismissed case just disappears? Think again. Brooke breaks down expungement, record sealing, and how to actually get a second chance.
Who's Really in Charge of Your Money After You Die?
Choosing who gets your money is easy. Choosing who MANAGES it is the hard part. Brooke explains the trustee's role in plain English.
Can I Use That? What You Actually Own on the Internet
We see this all the time. People post a professional photo and write "PC: [Photographer Name]" or "No copyright infringement intended." I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but saying you didn't mean to break the law doesn't mean you didn't break the law. It’s like telling a police officer, “No speeding intended,” while you were doing 90 in a 40.
Common Law Marriage: The Myth That Won't Die
No, there's no "seven-year rule." Brooke Hardie breaks down the real requirements for common law marriage—and why there's no such thing as a common law divorce.
What Happens When You Need a Lawyer and Can't Afford One?
Attorney Brooke Hardie and legal aid director Robert Doggett explain why there's no right to a lawyer in civil court—and what to do instead.
Your Parents Are Getting Older. When Is It Time to Step In?
RN and care manager Catherine Vergara on spotting the signs, handling resistance, and starting the conversation before a crisis forces it.
So Your Parents Are Getting Older. Here’s the Stuff Nobody Told Us About.
Power of attorney, home care, and the caregiving binder every family needs before a health crisis hits.
Prenups, Community Property, and the Three Things You Should Do Before Divorce Finds You
Divorce attorney Jodi Lazar breaks down prenups, community property, and the financial steps every woman should take before marriage trouble starts.
Wait, I Signed a What? The Truth About Non-Compete Agreements
Legally speaking, defining a non-compete gets surprisingly complicated. Practically speaking, it's simple: a non-compete is part of an agreement that restricts what you can do once your job ends.
Mediation, Arbitration, and the Art of Not Spending Your Life Savings Proving a Point
Mediation vs. Arbitration explained in plain English. Learn the difference, what arbitration clauses mean, and how to protect your rights.
The Case That Just Changed How Courts Look at Social Media
A jury held Meta and Google liable for negligent platform design—the precedent matters far more than the $6M verdict. Here's why.
The Constitution, Explained in Plain English
You don't need a law degree to know your rights. Brooke breaks down the Declaration, Constitution, and Bill of Rights in plain English.
They’re Taking My Land—Now What? Your Eminent Domain Survival Guide
Your property rights aren’t as ironclad as you think. Learn what eminent domain means, how fair compensation works, and how to fight for what you’re owed.
Fourth Amendment Rights: When Police Ask to Search Your Car
Most Fourth Amendment rights aren’t lost through confrontation — they’re lost through politeness. Here’s how consent searches work and why knowing when to say no matters.
Privacy Policy 101: What Your Website Legally Needs
Your website collects data the moment someone lands on it. Here's what business owners must legally disclose — and how to fix it fast.
Can They Even Do That? What the Law Actually Says About Neighbor Disputes
Trees, noise, fences, property lines — homeowner law explained in plain English so you know exactly when annoying becomes illegal.
Your Gun, Your Road Trip, and the State Laws That Could Ruin Both
Traveling with a firearm? Gun laws change at every state line. Learn the 3 carry systems, reciprocity rules, and how to avoid accidentally breaking the law.